Episode 161

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Published on:

23rd Jan 2026

Why 100M Americans Own Guns for Protection

Over 100 million Americans keep guns at home to protect loved ones. Jerremy Alexander Newsome and Dave Conley talk gun culture with advocates Richie Sowell and Josiah Graves. Personal stories, first memories, family traditions, safety rules—straightforward discussion on what responsible ownership actually means.

Timestamps:

  1. (00:00) 100 million Americans arm themselves to guard their families
  2. (00:36) Advocates explain why they carry and train daily
  3. (01:39) Childhood gun exposure builds lifelong respect—not fear
  4. (03:53) Real defense stories show guns can stop threats fast
  5. (08:12) Families pass firearms down like heirlooms—pride, not politics
  6. (12:53) Ownership brings constant trade-offs most owners admit
  7. (16:36) Secure storage and training prevent tragedies—full stop

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Transcript
Jerremy:

Every year over 100 million Americans keep a gun at

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home for one simple reason, to

protect the people they love most.

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From the frontier to the farm.

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Guns have been part of American

life for generations passed down

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with grandpa's stories, used to put

food on the table and kept close

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when the night gets quiet for them.

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It's not politics, it's dad

teaching his kids to shoot safely.

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It's a family knowing they're

covered on a dark country road.

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It's peace of mind that

no headline can take away.

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I'm Jerremy Alexander Newsom with my

co-host Dave Conley, and this is another

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episode of Solving America's Problems.

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Today we are sitting down with two

gun right advocates who walk and

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talk that way every single day.

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My good friend Richie, devoted husband

Rodeo, regular proud dad of three barrel

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racing kids, and a Christian entrepreneur

whose faith and family come first.

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Always.

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And then we have Josiah Graves, serial

entrepreneur, sales leader, team builder,

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and content creator who runs businesses

and still makes time to stand up for

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the rights that keep good people safe.

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Richie Josiah, welcome to the show.

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Josiah: Thanks for having us.

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Jerremy: Yeah, it's gonna be incredible.

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Love that both of you reached out.

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I posted something on Facebook.

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I was like, who wants to talk about guns?

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And you were the first two that said yes.

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And here we are.

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It's gonna be really great.

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So here's what we'll do.

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A open, broad question for both of you and

I'll, Richie, let's have you start first.

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What's the very first

memory you have of a gun?

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Who was there and what did it

mean to you in that moment?

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Richie: I would say really

young, probably three or four.

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I've been hunting with my dad.

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Since I was in diapers.

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I do know that, but I

don't really remember it.

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I would say the first time I ever

shot a gun, I was probably four.

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I actually still have this gun.

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Your introduction literally

made me think of it.

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My grandfather carried a little 22

pistol in his truck and the day he let me

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shoot it, I thought I was on cloud nine.

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We were just shooting

cans in the hunting woods.

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And when he passed away, I got my

pick of the litter of all of his guns,

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and that was the only gun I wanted.

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Because it just reminded me of him.

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Jerremy: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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That's awesome.

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I love that.

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And by the way, when you say

hunting, you gotta put a T in

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it for the rest of the episode.

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No, I'm kidding.

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Richie: Sorry, accent,

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Jerremy: No, just kidding.

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Josiah, what about you, man?

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What's your first memory of a gun?

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Josiah: I think my earliest

memory was also with my dad.

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My dad grew up on a farm and so

he was one of those kids that was

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given a gun out of necessity, for

use around the farm at a young age.

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And I think I was probably

between four and five.

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And one night it, I could just tell

he was in one of those I'm gonna

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show my son something cool moods.

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And he had never pulled it out.

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And he took out his 20 gauge shotgun

Remington shot gun that he grew up with

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and showed me, he went through the whole

process of cleaning it and, oiling it.

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And I was I was enamored.

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This was like one of the coolest things.

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And it would be probably another

10 years before I actually ever had

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the opportunity to fire that gun.

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But that definitely stuck

with me as a young boy.

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Jerremy: Yeah.

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Yeah, What's your strong,

great memories, right?

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It's things.

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that really root you into the safety

of that moment, which makes us think

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of a good question for me, I think.

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Tell us a moment.

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When having a gun actually

made you feel safer?

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Not in theory, like not that

something could have happened,

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but in your physical body.

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Richie: Do you want me to go first.

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Jerremy: Go for it.

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Sure.

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Richie: The first instance so I

have a license to carry before

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Florida, made it open to carry state.

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I was at a gas station

one night getting gas.

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It's probably 10 or 11 o'clock, and

I got approached by a very large man,

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that cornered me, getting out of my

vehicle, so I was essentially trapped.

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Couldn't get out couldn't get by him.

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And I'll never forget this.

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he was Hawking CDs and it was rap CDs.

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And he said, you need to buy my cd.

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And I said, look man, I

don't wanna buy your cd.

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And he's asking for five bucks, and I

said, do I look like the person that

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wants to, listen to that kind of, music?

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And I said I don't have any,

need for it, don't want it.

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But I always keep a pistol in my truck,

everywhere I go and when I opened the door

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enough to where I, could face him, he saw

the pistol, and my hand was right by it.

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I never had to pull it.

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I don't ever, intend to pull it.

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I hope I never have to.

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When he saw that it made him

enough aware of the situation that

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he backed up and left me alone.

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That just solidified that.

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had I not had that, I

can tell you right now.

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I'd like to consider myself a

pretty big dude myself, six two,

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but I couldn't have stopped him.

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He's probably three 50 pounds.

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This man was massive

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Jerremy: Or you would've had $5 less.

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Richie: Or a wallet, whatever.

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I don't know what he was after

I might've had a crappy, cd.

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I have

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Dave: You have a CD player?

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Richie: Back then I did

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Dave: Okay.

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Jerremy: Yeah.

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Richie: Was only probably 20 I may have

been 25 at the time and that's the first

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real instance that I've actually like.

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Okay.

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Okay.

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This is real for one.

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And.

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It can happen any anytime,

anywhere, any place.

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Jerremy: Yeah.

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All right.

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Josiah, what about you?

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Josiah: Yeah.

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I think it was in 2015 I also am, have

a concealed carry permit and I was it

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was actually with my dad, funny enough.

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And just me and him were on a trip

and we were staying at like an

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Airbnb and there were some I'm not

gonna name names, but there were

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some extended family members there.

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And one of 'em it was just

me and my dad at the house.

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We were cooking dinner and this guy came,

back to the house and I don't know what he

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was angry at my dad about, but it was bad.

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It was like evil.

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He was.

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Very much ratcheting the

temperature of the situation up.

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And my dad is not a fighter, and I

knew, I, was like, this guy is about

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to like, knock my dad out or worse.

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I was not in the room.

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I was sitting out on the patio

and there was a glass sliding door

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between where this altercation was

going on and where I was sitting.

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I was place was on the lake and I

was actually rigging up a a fishing

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rod to do some night fishing.

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And I was listening to what was

going on, hyper aware, and it

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was getting worse and worse.

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And I reached back behind me and I

clicked the safety off on my pistol.

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Fully prepared to if this person

violently attacked my dad, like it

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sounded could happen to defend him.

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And thank goodness I didn't have

to, it didn't get to that point.

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That person stormed off outta the room.

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Still in a rage.

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But nothing happened in that moment.

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And obviously my dad and I

were both pretty shaken and

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we got outta there that night.

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But I think that was the first time

that I've ever actually clicked

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the safety off on my carry gun.

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It was very real.

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And not something I ever wanna

experience again, but also very

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thankful that I was in a position to

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Protect someone who may not have

been able to protect themselves.

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Jerremy: Yeah.

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And so for both of you, at some

point you said the word protection.

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When you think about guns today,

for you personally, for people that

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you know, for friends, do you feel

like it's more about protection?

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Or is it more passing down traditions?

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Is it the sport of shooting or hunting,

or is it something else entirely?

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Josiah: For me, it's all of those things.

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It to me, none of those

things are mutually exclusive.

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I think the tradition is important.

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Obviously I, stand on my faith as a

Christian and very much believe in the,

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role that I feel like I was given as

a, father and a husband, to protect my

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family but also when I'm out in the world

to protect people who, are around me who

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may not be able to protect themselves.

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So I do feel like that is a God-given,

responsibility to to humans in general,

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but especially to us as God-fearing men.

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But absolutely the tradition of

hunting, people being connected to

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their, to where their food comes from

I think is more important than ever

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nowadays, and I think everything you

mentioned there, Jerremy is important.

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I wouldn't say any one of those

things is more important other.

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Jerremy: Totally.

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Rich, what about you buddy?

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Richie: Yeah.

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Very well said.

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I don't think I could say that any better.

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I, there's a huge emphasis

on tradition in my family.

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I have three daughters.

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They're now six 13 and three and my

13-year-old killed her first buck.

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This past year.

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That was probably one of the coolest

things I've ever witnessed and, having

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the conversation with her about the

tradition of this and going through the

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tradition of, the blooding phase where

put a little blood on her face, and

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having the conversation about this is

where your foods come, so you appreciate

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the deer and you appreciate what you

just did to provide for our family and

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how important it is to understand that

taking a life is not it's not something

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you do just willy-nilly I guess you would

say and then starting my now 6-year-old

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last year so she would've been five we

went out shooting for the first time

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and I'm sitting there teaching her about

firearms and teaching her how to properly

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hold the firearm shoot the firearm, and

it's, it's a little 22 so it's not that

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crazy And she just thought that was.

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That was the best time to her it's having

fun with dad To me it's instilling those

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traditions that I was raised up on and

learning from the get go 'cause I grew

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up in a gun store my dad owned a gun

store for 30 years first interaction

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with a gun was probably when I was

one just being in dad's store now my

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three-year-old is asking me when can

she start shooting so there's all these

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things that coming together I feel that

is major tradition that I think is lost

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or losing in a lot of families part of

it being access it gets hard to get to

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a range There's not ranges everywhere.

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I was blessed to grow up on property so

we go out in our backyard to shoot when I

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was eight nine years old, it was okay for

me to walk around with a shotgun and shoot

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doves out of the trees knowing whatever I

shot I had to eat I was home alone doing

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it nowadays there's no telling what would

happen if a kid was doing that but it is

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something that is very instilled in me

and I want to instill it in my kids from

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the protection side I always think my

kids come first and my wife comes first

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if my mind is not thinking that way I'm

very defensive minded anyway my wife knows

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we go to a restaurant i'm not sitting my

back to the door I will not do it and she

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knows She'll sit down and I'll look at

her and she's like, all right, I'll move.

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And sometimes it's sheer accident,

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Dave: She can sit with

her back to the door.

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Richie: Exactly I'm always aware and I'm

always looking because we don't live in

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the same world we lived in when I was 15

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Dave: Yeah.

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Richie: So with kids with wives and like

what Josiah said I don't expect my wife

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to be able to fend something off but if

I'm there, I'm going to do my best to

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do so it's very much what he said it's

tradition, It's protection it's family

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values it's learning the right way

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Jerremy: love it.

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Beautiful.

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Gentlemen, here's a fun one for you.

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Let's go with Richie first.

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Richie, what's the hardest part of

owning guns that People who do not

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own guns would never guess or assume.

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And just to give you some

ideas, is it the maintenance?

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Is it training time?

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Is it mental weight?

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Do you feel judged?

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What does that look like or feel

like regarding the hardest part

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of owning a gun, if there is.

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Richie: Training is probably the hardest

and most valuable anybody can really go

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buy a gun but if you're not trained on

it properly it can be dangerous it is

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very dangerous i've had several friends

that call me and say, Hey, I wanna buy

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my first gun I wanna Just keep it in a

lockbox at the house for protection and

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the first thing I say is okay, come over

to the house and we'll shoot all My guns

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see which one you like see which one fits

good for you but then I'm gonna teach

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you the ins and out of this gun how to

properly break it down to clean it safely

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so that you don't shoot yourself in the

leg or shoot one through the ceiling.

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Which I have seen all of these things

happen and and there is a mental hurdle

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in my head sometimes of yes I'm a gun

owner and I'm very proud of being a gun

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owner but as dave and I were discussing

earlier like I don't want to deal

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with some crazy person that doesn't

agree with me or my ideology And the

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next thing you know I've gotta hear it

for six months and they're making my

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social media hell and they're trying

to contact everybody you keep it quiet.

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I'm not a boastful gun owner but

anybody that knows me knows there's

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probably a lot of firearms at my

house so I guess that would be it

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Jerremy: Yeah.

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Love it.

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Thank you.

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Josiah, what about you bud?

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What's the hardest part of owning a gun?

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Josiah: And not buying more guns

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Richie: Very true.

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Dave: So, it's a habit really.

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I need another gun.

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Josiah: Yeah it really.

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Once you develop that love, and,

it's not a cheap hobby, and I'm

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giving this, somewhat comical

answer because what Richie said was

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really absolutely the right answer.

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I wanna make sure that everybody

understands that just possessing a

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firearm is not enough You have to

train and not just train, but you

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have to train under stress because

if you're ever in a situation where

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your safety or your life or the life

of someone else hangs in the balance,

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your adrenaline's gonna be dumping,

your heart rate is gonna be thumping.

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Right?

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And to be able to make snap

decisions wisely with a tool in

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your possession that can be the

difference between life or death.

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You have to train for that.

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And If you have not trained for that your

unpreparedness is going to show up in a

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way that you never could have anticipated

so I wanna make sure everybody listening

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understands that what Richie just said

is absolutely the right answer I just I

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was like all right since he took that off

the table we'll go the fun route, right

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But that really is once you get into the

sport the hobby whatever you wanna call

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it there's all kinds of different firearms

for all kinds of different purposes.

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And it really is fun once you know what

you're doing, you know, how to operate

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them correctly it really can be a lot of

fun And it is, a big challenge to not just

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spend all the money that you have on guns.

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I have a shirt.

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I thought about wearing it this

morning, but it's too cold.

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But the shirt says money can't buy

happiness, but it can buy guns.

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And that's pretty much the same thing.

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Jerremy: I that's a

real valid point, right?

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The expense of guns, they're expensive.

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So if you wanna buy more buckle up right?

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Josiah: And ammo, too.

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Jerremy: Coins.

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Yeah, that's right.

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Here's a question then that I'm sure

a lot of our listeners who do not own

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guns are really excited to hear about.

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we've mentioned traditions, we've

mentioned passing all of this down

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when kids, grandkids, friends,

other family members are in the

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house, which will be happening

soon as we approach Thanksgiving.

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How do you handle keeping guns

both safe and then also ready?

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What does that physically look like?

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Are they actually in a safe,

are they somewhere else?

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Richie mentioned it briefly, but we would

just love for you guys to walk us through.

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What that looks like.

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Richie: So i approach this from two

different standpoints, and I'll start

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with the first with my kids my kids know

that if they touch a firearm without dad

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present that's their ass There's no way

around it and it goes back to how did you

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learn as a toddler not to put your finger

in the light socket You were told you were

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explained you didn't learn by sticking

it in there and shocking the piss outta

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yourself so I treat guns the same exact

Way now they're not just laying around

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I have every firearm locked up a second

access away that only I can get into or

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my wife can get into so it doesn't bother

me there can be a thousand people at

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my house They can't get to my firearms

that's not a problem for me and as my

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kids got older when they were little i'd

hide 'em on top of the closet where they

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can't reach And as they've gotten older

I was like okay they need to be put in

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a box They're getting, they can climb

now they can do all those things and I

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want quicker access I can't have one in

my nightstand drawer I would never do

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that because that's easy to get to but

every firearm I have is either in a gun

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safe or a lockbox, like one's attached

to my bed and I have a fingerprint,

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I have a button or I have a passcode.

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So I have three different options To

get into that in under a second and so

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it doesn't really bother me it doesn't

scare me but it goes back to I guess you

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would call it the training or mentoring

of firearms like I was taught from a very

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young age a firearm can kill you A firearm

can hurt you if you touch this without

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your father or your grandfather present

you are gonna get your tail tore up no

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questions asked and that was the rule

set and that was what was followed and I

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knew I didn't want that tail whipping so

I never tempted it my kids are the same

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way they want to go shoot and there's been

countless times where I'll open the gun

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safe and I'm going in to get something

and they walk up and I just look at em and

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they're like they're looking at me like

can I do it I'm like nope we're not doing

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And they back up and it's just ingrained

in em So they know it's not to say it

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couldn't happen, but they just know.

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Dave: So

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Richie: other way

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Dave: Yeah, you're talking

about good parenting.

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How about somebody who comes into your

house that may not be familiar with guns?

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Do let 'em know?

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Or what happens?

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Particularly?

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Yeah, like I think what Jerremy was

saying, it's like holidays are coming up.

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You might have all sorts

of folks in your house.

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Richie: I'm not gonna advertise

it they can't get to 'em.

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Them.

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Okay.

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It's not Yeah i'm not advertising it I'm

not hey let's go look at the guns unless

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if I got a collector's gun or something

cool and the guys are wanting to look at

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stuff like that and we're talking guns

sure but that's just us walking over there

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opening up, and then I lock it back like

I'm not leaving it open Or I don't even

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have guns on display like a mantelpiece

I would love an old side by side rabbit

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or shotgun to hang over the mantle But

even that I it's unnecessary in my opinion

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Dave: How about you, Josiah?

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Josiah: Yeah totally agree with what Rich

said on the training the kids part that's

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how I've always done it in my house.

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Seeing a gun in my house for my kids is

not weird so there's no curiosity there

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and I think that's the key if the kids

have been taught that responsibility

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and they've been taught that healthy

respect, I can, if I'm working on a

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rifle or cleaning guns or something like

that I've done Kind of experiments where

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I've left them out on the counter for an

afternoon and stuff like that Obviously

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with no ammo near them or anything like

that and all of my kids just ignore them.

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It's like seeing a cup on the counter

or something like that because they've

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been brought up around them The danger

comes in when you've got a curious kid

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who's trying to, they're learning they're

figuring out the world around them

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and they never have been around a real

firearm They've never been around a real

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firearm and they see one laying somewhere.

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That's where it's dangerous like was

saying, I never have to worry about that

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with my kids cause they've been taught

a healthy respect And I also, a couple

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of times when they were too young, took

them out with me shooting and let them

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experience the loud Concussive noises

that these things make, and all you

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really have to do once is shoot an apple

or a watermelon or something like that

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and say See what that just did right?

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Like that is what will happen

to you or me if we're on the

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business end of this thing.

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So this is why these rules that I'm

teaching you are so important, right?

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And that sticks with the kid,

especially if you teach 'em young.

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So never had a problem with

the kids again it's normal, and

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they have a healthy respect and

they've been taught those things.

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As far as guests coming into the

house, no, you could easily be

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in my house for a weekend and

have no idea there's guns here.

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Richie said it's not advertised unless

something went down No one would ever know

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And if I wanna show a buddy a build

that I did or something like that, they

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don't go with me to where it's stored

I get it out, and I bring it out into

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the living room or the dining room

or whatever, check it out, whatever.

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And then I go and

disappear and put it away.

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So I'm never leading, guests

in my house to directly where

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things are stored either.

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There's other layers to that too

obviously for tactical, quick response

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time sake you want to have some things

that do have a round in the chamber but

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you want that to be ideally a double

action firearm, something that a young

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kid couldn't pull that first trigger

pole, it's 12 pound trigger pole.

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They wouldn't be able to pull it Something

with a lighter trigger pole or a single

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action you do not want to keep in the

chamber So you wanna make those kind

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of tactical decisions as well as far as

what your quick response time guns are

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and kind of balance that with safety,

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Jerremy: Love that.

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Thank you.

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Alex: Josiah's kids ignore unloaded

rifles sitting out — his kids

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walk past like it's nothing...

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because respect got taught early.

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But outsiders see an "ignorant

redneck" and the label won't shake.

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About the Podcast

Solving America's Problems
Solving America’s Problems isn’t just a podcast—it’s a journey. Co-host Jerremy Newsome, a successful entrepreneur and educator, is pursuing his lifelong dream of running for president. Along the way, he and co-host Dave Conley bring together experts, advocates, and everyday Americans to explore the real, actionable solutions our country needs.

With dynamic formats—one-on-one interviews, panel discussions, and more—we cut through the noise of divisive rhetoric to uncover practical ideas that unite instead of divide. If you’re ready to think differently, act boldly, and join a movement for meaningful change, subscribe now.