Episode 126

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Published on:

19th Nov 2025

Gun Control's Dead End: Why Bans Flop and Mental Health Holds the Key to Real Change

Jerremy Alexander Newsome and Dave Conley unpack the nuances of gun control in America, revealing why total bans fall short and targeted regulations matter more. They stress mental health's pivotal role in curbing gun violence, weaving in state-specific laws, proactive steps, and social drivers like poverty and hopelessness. Blending personal stories with data, they champion balanced policies that honor the right to bear arms while prioritizing public safety through informed, multifaceted solutions.

Timestamps:

  • (00:00) America's Gun Trap: Why Bans Fail and Deeper Woes Demand Urgent Fixes
  • (08:58) International Perspectives on Gun Laws
  • (14:58) The Root Causes of Gun Violence
  • (16:43) Final Thoughts and Future Discussions


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Transcript
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Jerremy dismisses full bans as unworkable, favoring smarter

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controls that address mental

anguish over outright seizures.

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But as Dave traces laws born from

tragedies, the core tension surfaces—if

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guns mask deeper woes like poverty,

where do proactive fixes truly start?

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Jerremy: I'll take the devil's

advocate stance for a second.

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It's is that going to stop bad

people from doing bad things?

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No, not at

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Dave: Of course not.

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Like it'll always come back to the bad

guys are still gonna get Yes, for sure.

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Like that nobody's stopping that.

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And if you are not too ha like if

somebody is, if somebody is picked up

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jaywalking with a gun that they are

not, up to speed on it, then that's

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where you get the hairy eyeball.

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That's where you do, run into an issue.

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It's this isn't your gun.

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This isn't the gun that this

you are not up to speed on this.

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Like this is, you're not that.

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Now, I don't, I am also a little

bit of the government doesn't need

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all this information kind of thing.

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But I, I do think that there's a

space here for saying these are

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what the rules are and then it, each

state needs to make sure that these,

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are met in some form or fashion.

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This is where you get the nras and

things in order to put together these

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certifications and to make 'em no joke,

and that, and then to make 'em universal

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across all the states so you don't, roll

over to Louisiana to pick up this and

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you roll over to Florida to do this.

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Jerremy: I don't, maybe I

trust government too much.

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I probably do and it's probably

not a good thing, but I don't

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really mind the government

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Dave: national

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Jerremy: if I have guns or not because

they know if I have cars and I have

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to register them every year and I

have to pay every single year, every

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flipping year, I gotta go register

my car and pay that stupid tax or

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whatever it is, 300, $500 per car.

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So they know what cars you have

and they're all registered with it.

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VIN number and then you have

to have insurance on it.

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Dave just the other day, like

I re-registered 'cause we moved

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in a bunch of things and I think

everyone on the podcast knows.

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And so we moved, a bunch of different

places and the insurance company that I

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had were like, oh, you live in Nevada.

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Nevada's still with crazy people.

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We don't insure you.

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We don't insure you.

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Dave: Yeah.

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I know Florida's the same.

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And you and I were just talking

that I'm getting a car here and I'm

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just like, oh God, it's an antique.

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I hope they're not gonna charge me.

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A billion

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Jerremy: they're gonna

charge you an arm and a leg.

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Yeah.

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No one's gonna insure that car.

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FYI.

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No, you're gonna have to get a

liability policy and then the

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rest is all gonna be up to you.

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Dave: I got

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Jerremy: You're, but you're

gonna have to have it registered.

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If you get pulled over with no

license and registration, please.

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You're fucking toast.

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Like you're gonna pay some,

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Dave: True.

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Yeah,

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Jerremy: be not good.

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So that's the government knowing

you have a more deadly thing

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Dave: true.

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Jerremy: statistically than a gun.

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If the government knows that you

got nine guns, the people that are

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afraid oh, the government's gonna

come and take your gun dog if the

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government's coming to take your guns.

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They're probably gonna

take other things too.

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Like you you

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Dave: coming to show up and get

your gun, something else has gone

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Jerremy: dog, you terribly wrong.

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You landed on some bad list,

you went to some website.

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You should not have gone and typed

in something you shouldn't have

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typed into because they're gonna

take your cars, they're gonna

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take your house and is that legal?

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No, they shouldn't be doing that.

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But you're already there.

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You've done something incorrect

already, in my opinion.

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It's the registration process.

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I don't believe personally is something

that I would be afraid of or scared of.

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And I'd be a gun controlling,

gun owning citizen.

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I really do not see the

negatives in that application.

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And if it's registered and you have

to update it and you have to do

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some mental health check ever so

often, that could just be a person

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that is in all gun ranges, right?

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So there's a gun range.

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I don't know how many gun ranges, but

like in Nashville there's one in almost

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every corner in Vegas, there's like 50.

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So you go to a gun range.

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In order to be a gun range, the you

have to have an employee or a or a

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government agency or someone there

that does mental health checks,

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and you go in and you simply have

a conversation with that person.

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Again, the question that the big advocates

are gonna go is what's that gonna solve?

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Dave: That's legit because it's again,

we're just saying that the criminals

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are not following any of these.

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Jerremy: no.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Criminals aren't gonna follow any of these

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Dave: Is there and let's say that, I'm

just gonna guess, I, I didn't get dig

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this deep, but, with most of those deaths

in the, the young black communities

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in cities, a lot of them in Chicago.

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That's another thing.

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It's if you wanna solve

this, you start in Chicago.

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Jerremy: St.

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Louis

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Dave: where are those guns coming from?

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You know what, how do we stop that?

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Who, like who's responsible for that?

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Somebody at some point had to

buy that gun and it was either

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stolen from them or, like it got

out of legal possession somehow.

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So who's responsible for that?

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Is it the gun manufacturer?

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Is it the person who originally bought it?

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If somebody, who

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Jerremy: who sold it to

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Dave: sold it to them?

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Who's, like certainly the person

who has the gun that is not theirs,

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the legal owner of that gun.

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Like that should be a

pretty stiff penalty, right?

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Jerremy: It should be tracked

more than it is now, or at least

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discussed openly in media outlets,

probably more than it is now.

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And again I hear the advocates very

clearly is it gonna stop anyone?

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And the answer is.

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It's not gonna stop the negative.

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It's not gonna stop the people

that are doing things wrong.

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But what it is going to do is provide

the opportunity for the people that

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are very terrified of guns, that maybe

they increase ownership because they

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go, listen, there's a lot of protocols,

there's a lot of safeties around this.

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We actually do care as a nation, you

still have all of your rights and we

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are listening to you as a government

saying, Hey, this is the problem.

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Sure, we can subside some of this

because we realize that here's

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what the bigger problem is.

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The bigger problem is mental health.

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That's gonna be the bigger challenge.

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Numerically

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Dave: change a lot right there.

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Jerremy: Yes.

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Where it's listen man, hey

we did some of the protocols.

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We did some of the applications.

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We hear you gun control people.

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We, we're with you.

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So yeah, let's control it more.

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And here's some of the

protocols that do that.

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Because again, that's what we're

trying to do in this conversation.

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That's what we're doing in this

podcast, is we really wanna

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solve some of these problems.

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And what I hear you saying

is when you have a what?

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What was it?

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CVI.

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Dave: Yeah,

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Jerremy: have a, when you

have the CVI, the communities

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Dave: deal.

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Jerremy: That are receiving more money

from the the slightly increased prices

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of ammunition, that now you get to pour

into the individuals that are going

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to be faced with the not only mental

health challenge, but also potentially

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the financial problems the financial

stresses, the lack of opportunity.

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The lack of awareness of opportunity.

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And you have citizens and you have

community members that are really, that

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have the funding to go and spend the

time and the energy to actually pour

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into the youth and the males that are

going to be affected by this negatively.

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Now that negative becomes more of a

positive and gun death can decrease,

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Dave: Yeah, so

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Jerremy: it's more or less that simple.

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And then we crack down on cars.

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I'm back to that.

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I'm back to it, Dave.

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It's oh man,

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Dave: Breathalyzers and cars.

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I, you have lost my vote.

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I have supported you from day one.

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Forget it, I'm out breathalyzers on cars.

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What?

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Yeah.

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I'm cutting that out of this episode.

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Jerremy: something.

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Dave: Not letting anybody hear that.

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No.

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Gotta get ahold of you and reprogram you.

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Alright, so get at this.

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California, you can own a weapon,

but it is a pain in the ass.

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Like they got all sorts of regulations.

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It's universal background checks and

all sorts of, regulations in California

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are the strictest in the nation.

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And then there's Texas that is

basically they're, if you register

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your car, they can hand you a gun.

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Like it's, no very small.

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And the outcomes are out there like

California, very populous country.

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They have 8.5

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per a hundred thousand deaths in

Texas that has nothing is 14.2.

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So there's a big difference

between California and Texas.

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I live in Florida and they

actually try to strike a balance.

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Like there are waiting periods.

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I think it's like a two or three

day waiting period, and that stops

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the, somebody who's pissed off.

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It gets, it's a cooling off period.

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They do have oh, what do they call them?

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Er, eer.

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Oh, E RPOs.

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Those are the red flags.

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Like if like particularly women who

are in a domestic violence situation,

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they go to the, they, there's a very

simple process with the police to be

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like I'm in danger and I'm, I feel

like I'm in danger for my partner.

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That.

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The person's got to go and and

check in their weapons and,

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it's an administrative process.

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It is not difficult to get the red flag,

and it is easy for it to be adjudicated.

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Meaning, the state doesn't seal

your, we, take your weapons forever.

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So Florida's in between and

the results are in between.

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Internationally, like

Germany has very strict laws.

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Australia, you were just there, like

they, they had a mass shooting and they

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basically took everybody's guns away.

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And Canada has, I think as

many, guns per person as we do.

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And they don't have nearly

the number of gun deaths.

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So I'm like, where should we

be spending energy on this?

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It seems like California, even though

it's a pain, actually has some results.

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And Texas, where they don't,

there's some problems.

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I don't know where I'm going with

this other than, like I'm, creeping

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towards the world of maybe we do

need some more regulations in certain

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areas, even though we've just spent 40

minutes saying it's very specialized.

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It's, young black men and and suicides.

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And it's it's, ensuring that kids don't

get guns and domestic violence situations.

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That's it.

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Like it's, it doesn't

go beyond those walls.

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Jerremy: Yeah.

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That's, that, that's

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Dave: yeah.

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What,

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Jerremy: taking away people's guns

will never work in the US that we

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Dave: this is a

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Jerremy: That will.

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Cause

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Dave: Zero starter.

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Jerremy: never gonna happen.

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And you know what?

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I don't want to happen.

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Dave: No.

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Jerremy: don't.

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I don't think it should, I don't

think there's any reason to.

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Just because you have a mass shooting,

it's oh, take everyone's guns away.

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No, like looking at the statistics

you gotta dive into the data.

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It doesn't show that's what the issue is.

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And again, if you make guns massively

illegal, okay, no one can have them.

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Will mass shootings decrease?

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Yeah, they would decrease.

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And they, they'd almost have

to, 'cause no one can get access

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to a gun, so it's very hard.

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So mass shootings would go down, but

mass something else would increase some

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there would be another lever somewhere

that starts to happen because evil

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people or people that are in massive,

incredible mental anguish are going to

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find another way to do something to.

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Horrific, and I think it's the

trend that we're seeing around the

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world that's not mass gun shootings.

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There's a mass uptick in anxiety,

depression, cancer, heart disease,

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financial ruin, like those things

are causing even worse negative

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pressures than just guns by themselves.

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Dave: Hey, look if there is gun violence,

it's not because you had a good day.

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Again, it keeps coming back to

that, it's like good days don't end

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with violence, so more good days.

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Jerremy: Yeah.

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I, yeah.

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Yeah.

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Dave: gets down to, it's like more

prosperity, more abundance education,

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making sure that people have, outcomes.

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It's

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Jerremy: Preaching to my heart.

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Preaching to my heart.

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Dave: These, urban youth and poor.

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If they have a way out of seeing any

view out of that, gives people hope and

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that gets people out, building lives

and not tearing 'em down, it's just ah

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Jerremy: I think if we have, again, maybe

this is just my belief, but I feel it

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and I sense it around the communities

that I spend a hundred hours a month in,

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and those communities are the positive.

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You're about to enter one

in a couple weeks, right?

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The joda spend a 10 day meditation

retreats, meditation events.

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I know that's a very small subset of

humans and individuals, but when you're

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going into these self-development worlds

where people are just pouring into

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themselves and loving on themselves,

suicide's still there, depression is

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still there, anxiousness is still there,

but they know how to deal with it.

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They know how to cope through it.

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They start seeing ways out,

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Dave: Yeah.

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Jerremy: and they are not limited

to the, hey, there's only one way.

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And that way is by damaging

myself or damaging other people.

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They are aware that they're

making a conscious choice of

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either being a victim or a victor.

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And if they are going to choose

the victim route, they go,

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Hey, I wanna live in this pain.

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I wanna live in this anguish.

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They start to understand

why they feel that way.

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And if you have leaders that

are not extremely divisive

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Dave: Yep.

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Jerremy: and you have someone

from the top down daily and often

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that is simply reminding people

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Dave: Yeah.

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Jerremy: that you have a choice that

is conscious to make, and you can

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choose to live in positivity or you

can choose to live in negativity.

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It is a choice.

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If you're choosing negativity, you can

choose how long you wanna feel that way.

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It doesn't mean that if you're depressed,

you can never be depressed again.

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But there are biological,

biochemical features.

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Physiology, I can't say that

word, features that a depressed

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person is going to carry.

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They're gonna, there's certain

ways they're gonna breathe.

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There's certain ways they're

gonna hold themselves.

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There's certain ways that

their body's gonna move.

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When you are in a depressed

state, you become depressed.

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And the more you can start shifting

that, and the more that we have leaders

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from the top down approach that pour

into these these, the citizens of this

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country, and start showing them and

teaching them and guiding them through

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light love, happiness, positivity,

and awareness of how they feel, and

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this emotional competency, I believe

that actually does make a huge dent.

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And I don't think we have that.

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A long time.

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My

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Dave: here.

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Jerremy: man.

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Dave: I,

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Jerremy: Where do we go from here?

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What?

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What do you think is coming

next for our listeners?

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Because we have so many listeners

that just really care about this.

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Dave: where do we go from here?

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I think we're gonna have some

stellar human beings on this one.

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We're gonna, we are going to be talking

to advocates, gun owners for sure.

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That's I believe we're gonna be

bringing that up for the next

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I want victims of gun violence.

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People who've been shot and

what their view of the world is.

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I want to get the, somebody who's sees

all the guns and I want to get folks that

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are like, no, we're doing communities.

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I love this the urban programs.

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I wanna be talking to those folks.

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But I think, ultimately when I did

the research, started the research

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on this, I realized that this

topic is not that much about guns.

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Like we talk and we used guns as

a placeholder for other things.

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It is not the guns, it's the suicides.

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It's not the guns, it's the homicides.

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And underneath that homicides,

it's the hopelessness, it's

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the poverty, it's the problems.

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It's, the inability to cope.

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It's, like the problems that are

underneath that, the guns are just

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a they're a method to the madness.

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Underneath all of that, there's so

much more that we need to be focused

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on, so much more that we need to

be talking about that we don't, and

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that we use guns as a placeholder for

the real problems underneath this.

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And that's, I, when looking at the

history of this, we didn't really touch

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on that, but I, looking at the history

of guns and guns, ownership and gun

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laws in the United States, there were

basically no laws in the United States

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until the 1930s were, when they banned

alcohol and we got gangsters, right?

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And, Tommy guns.

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And that's when, that was the first

time that the government was like,

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oh, we gotta do something about this.

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And they did.

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It was basically you had to register,

automatic weapons, but then there

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was nothing until the sixties.

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And it and that was when John F.

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Kennedy got killed.

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And that's when actually the basis of

all the background checks actually came.

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You couldn't buy guns

by mail order anymore.

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And then every time we've had an

a discussion about guns, every

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time it's been because of tragedy

and we've gotta stop that piece.

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We can't be reactive,

we've gotta be proactive.

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And it's all the stuff

that's underneath this.

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It is not the guns and it is

about what's underneath it.

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That's what I believe.

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Jerremy: I love that.

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I love that.

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And for all of my listeners, and

for everyone who's, tuning in and

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checking this information out, Dave,

I really liked this conversation, man.

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I really did because it, it

brings a lot of awareness to me.

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I believe everyone who is up to date

on this podcast, they're aware that

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I am doing this podcast to learn.

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I, I am learning because I do not

obviously have all the answers,

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but from a political standpoint,

I have very little answers.

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And as we keep going through this

podcast, what's happening is I am

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continuing to learn not only where

I stand, how I really feel, but more

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importantly the data and then the

policies that I'll be able to implement

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to actually create legitimate change

based on statistics and not opinions.

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Not based on how I feel, because you've

already changed so much of how I feel

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about certain things, and I've done the

same for you, and we're creating this

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really beautiful melding pot of yeah.

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It's cool you feel that way.

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But here's actually the data and I'm in

a place where I realize I have an ego.

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Of course everyone does, but

my ego's not strong enough to.

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Have the inability to go,

I'm wrong on this topic.

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Let me actually go through what

the data says and start making the

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appropriate shifts so that I can lead

this nation into the most prosperous

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time that we've ever been a part

of prosperous and peaceful, because

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it's coming and it's coming through.

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Just the realization that we are in a

time where we have so much information

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and it's not being implemented, and

it's not being implemented with wisdom.

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It's not being implemented with truth,

with integrity, and most importantly,

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with the vibration, the frequency of

love and abundance and prosperity.

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And as much as Maryam Williamson, when

she was running for president, was

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continued to push love and love and love,

she also wanted to change everything.

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And everything was broken,

everything was a problem.

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And I was like, Marianne, I love

you, but you can't take down

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the entire system overnight.

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'cause the President really

doesn't have that much control.

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The only thing I really want to

control, and the only thing I

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really wanna update, ultimately,

is gonna be the education system.

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Dave: Yeah.

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Jerremy: You've said that word 45 times

in this podcast because that's really the

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root cause and the root fix of most of

the challenges that face this country.

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And with that, boys and girls, ladies

and gentlemen, friends and family, we're

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gonna continue to have conversations.

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We're gonna continue to have

discussions and we really will keep

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piece mailing together more of the

beliefs and the information and

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the real statistics that are there.

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And we're gonna hear people, and I'm

gonna continue to collect incredible

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data so that when I'm in a place, in

a position of understanding and of

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power, I can and Dave and myself, and

we can create real, meaningful change

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and policies that people can agree

on that actually do put this country

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into a place of incredible prosperity.

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About the Podcast

Solving America's Problems
Solving America’s Problems isn’t just a podcast—it’s a journey. Co-host Jerremy Newsome, a successful entrepreneur and educator, is pursuing his lifelong dream of running for president. Along the way, he and co-host Dave Conley bring together experts, advocates, and everyday Americans to explore the real, actionable solutions our country needs.

With dynamic formats—one-on-one interviews, panel discussions, and more—we cut through the noise of divisive rhetoric to uncover practical ideas that unite instead of divide. If you’re ready to think differently, act boldly, and join a movement for meaningful change, subscribe now.